Who loves who ? What Is True Love ?

Oh !  Goodness !      Dementia !    My Parents.    What is True Love ?  Tell yourself  :

"If you cannot face to the storms emerging in life at any time,  please at least train yourself calm on mind."    The same as many dementia patients' families ,  from the beginning of the shock, to escape from the reality,  "  Mother !    how could she be dementia   !   "    Until mother forgot how to count the money, forgot the way home,  the whole family cried & accepted mother really losing her memory....   "At that time the doctor asked her 23 +48 equals how much  my mother answered  2.   "   Mother also said  :   " she is 25 years old this year  !! "  When recalling  the scene of that day,  the family hid and  scared silly, only cried.     "But the mother can chat,  but also she downstairs to buy some things,  how can she suffer dementia  ?  "   When mother treated a thousand dollar as a hundred dollar.    We regretted not to understand the disease of dementia early, early for the mother's life to do some in-time arrangements, more grasp the time when the whole family members may get along with .  "It's really a long and hardship way for   the families' members with dementia."      It was difficult to imagine how much patience, how many times   the patient was sick to be sent to the hospital to & fro ,  this was the statement from a middle-aged daughter   of 90-year-old mother's .       Eyes were always wet and cried,  cried again and wet.    When the ill person has been judged that she already degraded  to control her own behavior and thought,    we still viewed her at high standard and by unreasonable direction,    Not knowing that poor parents had been losing self-control involuntarily,    Let's face to the cruel truth,   it was a rebound.    Time could not be turned back,  the loss of parents was always the deeply pain of our heart.    Now please learn     more seriously to face daily life, pay attention to health,   active sports, nutritious food.  but also no hesitation to travel ( except COVID-19,20,21 period );  often around the family &  said, "I love you".   "When you are happy every day & cherish yourselves,  you will not be afraid of death."   Think ... How the parents have brought us up to grow , in the same way we reward parents while they're getting old.     The beginning of a mistake, we missed the golden time of treatment,  so that the disease could no longer be controlled,  While thinking of this paragraph, full of sorrow &  regret.   Once,  mother spent a couple of hours in the toilet did not come out,  so the daughter pushed the door,  actually found her mother playing feces,  and also painted the excrement to the wall of toilet as she did not  know to use toilet paper.     The daughter collapsed running out the door ......  Suddenly she recalled parents' grace & reminded herself    how her young parents delicately cleaned her feces & the urine   while the daughter was only a baby.    she thought of her mother always decorated herself ( daughter )   very pretty everyday ;  so she took a deep breath, smiling and took a look at  her mother softly said with caution  :   " Mom, do not matter, do not be afraid,  we come to take a bath, wash your body with fragrance ...  "   After the mother that day cleaned the body,  silver hair lined with fresh smile,  mother and daughter eyes,  full of love and happiness ...    With "love" we overcome all,  even if  hardships are  encountered.  Our family never overlooked old & sick parents.       "She can not remember who I am,   but I can not forget that She has paid for me," the daughter said.       My mother even will not say a word,   she can only lie quietly on bed waiting for the elapse of life       "  I am delicately arranging three meals a day  for the dementia mother......  " the daughter said.  Often (every two weeks)   The daughter bought the beautiful delicate earrings  ( necklaces )   for her mother.    Both of them  opened the jewelry box that was tightly hold  by the arms of the dementia mother   & then they tried on all pretty jewelry accessories together   watching the mirror   & smilingly praised each other  " beauty !  You  ".    A whole box collection all of beautiful jewelries  was given by her daughter  when she was not around her mother   & so the dementia mother got the warmth that  she could lean on her daughter's love and goodwill .     Daughter's mind stayed with her & could be reliable.  There was warmth & peace filled in old mother's mind.       So the old mother's smile   was always naive happily like a child.    Always she every day looked forward to her daughter  bringing the beautiful jewelry to her  that was the dementia old mother only happy thing  (after suffering the dementia)        This was a true story  that one of our jewelry regular buyers  told us in Taiwan.      We would like to share this story with all of you.    How do you take care of your dementia parents ? 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