How can you sense if your lover is lying ?
What are the signs that someone is lying to you ?
#갯마을 차차차 #Hometown Cha-Cha-Cha #海岸村恰恰恰
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( 2021.11.01 대만어 중국어로 작성했습니다 )
2022.01.06 해외 네티즌들의 요청으로글 말미에 영문 간체를 추가했습니다 )
Hope
Korean friends who understand Taiwan language
Can forward this article to 김선호 金宣虎 Kim Seon Ho
<p.s.> Some oversea netizens expected to read in English.
Spending holiday time, I briefly offer it
at the bottom of this article.
希望看得懂繁體中文的 韓國朋友
能將此文轉達給金宣虎
( Ｎｏｖ．０１，２０２１ 我用台灣中文寫了此文 ）
Jan.06, 2022 依應國外網友要求,
我加入簡易英文版本在文章最後 )
南韓 10月17日一篇爆料文章引起熱議，
演員金宣虎(前)女友PO出長文, 指控對方發現她懷孕後軟硬兼施勸誘墮胎, 韓網議論紛紛。
除了將他這幾年建立的好名聲一秒崩壞，對其演出的《海岸村恰恰恰》、
兩天一夜 ，即將開拍與洽談中的電影作品都造成相當大的困擾。
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韓媒《Dispatch》今報導，A女是前氣象主播, 曝光女生12項扭曲的事實 :
公開2人交往的始末，女方交往時反覆說謊，金宣虎才忍痛分手，
案情大逆轉，網友驚呆留言「那女生好可怕」、「金宣虎好可憐」，
那女生的前夫更可憐 !!
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亞洲太多 英俊男生 (與) 漂亮女生
我從不迷戀任何演員,
沒有崇拜偶像 , 只欣賞他(她)們的作品 **
最近看到一戲劇 : 男演員的笑容好甜
從他笑容裡我看到真誠/善良(與)靦腆
我真的喜歡那笑容 :
因此《海岸村恰恰恰》 我從第一集 ~~ 看到最後一集
( 因為筆者我, 也臉上兩個深深酒窩 ~
自小學到研究所 ~ ~ ~ 都是班上酒窩第一深 )
我辦公室同事們 : 都鍾愛這戲劇.
也都欣賞劇中所有演員 ~ 特別是男主角.
突然 !!
結局最終集當天晚上來個大核彈爆炸 !!
辦公室同事心碎的問我 :
姐 ! 怎麼辦 ? 為何有此等事 !!
我平靜地告訴她(他)們 : 我不相信女生 形容的那樣 .
墮胎或許是事實.
但細節絕非百分百事實.
你們等數日後, 或許會有新進展.
我還是喜歡那孩子( 金宣虎 )的真誠甜笑容.
那笑容不是假的. 是蘊於(心)中 ~ 形於外.
我不相信~~他會如此邪惡 .
姐 ~ 您還是喜歡金宣虎這演員嗎 ?
是的 ! 我斬釘截鐵地回答
不管網路寫甚麼批評他嗎 ?
是的 ! 我斬釘截鐵地又回答
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我不想評論那(前)女友.
只想提醒金宣虎
(與)這世上其它二十幾歲 / 三十幾歲的男孩子們 :
找女朋友, 除了你們喜歡的外表以外,
品德非常重要 ( 這才關係一生的幸福與否 ) ******
清白. 生活單純. 善良. 有內涵.
廚藝好. 不愛慕虛榮.
努力工作(且)吃苦耐勞, 又孝順父母.
這些人格特質非常重要 ****
談戀愛不開心. 每天壓力重重的, 心沉悶 !
無法信任對方.
( 不要因為愛上了, 就不停損. )
( 不要捨不得放棄 )
這就是不合適的對象 ~
絕對要"果斷地"離開 ( 雖然很難 ...... )
再痛 ! 再不捨 ! 也要遠離 ~~~~
否則,會越傷越重的 !
通常, 在感情中 ~
受苦的人 : 是付出真心的那一方. 傷痕鏤刻一輩子.
出手傷害打擊對方之人 : 大部分不是對的. 但不知羞愧.
貪婪自私. 藉口一堆. 不反省.
淺薄 ~ 這類人等老邁方知後悔 !!
但嘴硬 ! 不承認.
( 那彼時 ~ 當初被傷害撕心裂肺的人
早已破繭而出 ~ 彈跳千萬丈高之外.
悟透人生 ! 過得超然又自在 ** )
我大學時,研究所時期,
看過一些同學, 因男女感情傷害而頓時面目全非.
有人自暴自棄.
我畢業入社會工作後,
也常遇企業中, 年輕同事向我訴說他們的感情痛苦
無法安心工作 .........
這些同學/同事在勇敢面對創痛之後,
如今是既成熟又成功 ~~~
老天在我們心上劃一道傷口 :
促使我們去領悟 ~~ 人生不可能事事完美 .
因為不完美 ~~ 我們去修正, 去努力地再出發.
摀住滴血胸口傷痕轉身奮發向上.
我們生命, 也就有了深度與厚度.
現在的宣虎 :
心如刀割, 鮮血淋漓, 支離破碎.
掙扎的過程是煎熬的.
痛恨苦難,奮力想擺脫這一切.
卻雙腿癱軟, 心靈殘破.
不知如何面對大眾 !!
混沌 ~ 迷離 ~ 不知所措 !
躲起來 ~ 傷心痛哭.
怨恨自己為何讓父母操心 !
讓所有愛護他的朋友們難受 !
粉絲們驚愕失望 !
混亂 ....心緒糾結 ..... 茫然 !!
傷痕纍纍 , 心靈已面目全非, 再也找不回原來的自己.
一人孤獨無助地.....漂浮在無垠大海面.
伸手不見五指 ~ 感傷未來不可知 ...... 蒼茫一片.
要飄向何方 ????
強顏歡笑 ! 人前不露痕跡 .
淌血傷口有多麼痛 ?
只有承受過方知.
傷痕深度, 無法淡忘, 卻教育我們許多領悟 !
第一部電影 ~ 演個壞人角色也無妨 :
( 拚命打鬥吧 ! )
承受的傷害, 心中積累之愁苦, 鬱悶 , 委屈, 氣憤.
剛好藉Sad Tropical 劇中角色通通宣洩出來 ~ ~
( 打吧 ~ )（用力地打）( 流汗地拚搏 )
( 打到精疲力盡 ) ( 打到聲嘶力竭 )
(打到淚流滿面 ) ( 打到跪地放聲痛哭 ).
你就活過來了 !
這折磨
將蛻變 (宣虎)你 ~~ 未來更堅毅茁壯成熟.
更看見人(自己 )的渺小.
更謙卑 ~~ 懂得憐憫與體恤.
更清楚 ~~ 人生路上的荊棘
更豁達 ~~ 願意幫助世上受難的人.
當你不再被社會複雜人事物蒙蔽.
知曉用自己人生閱歷去分析判斷.
不隨波逐流 ~~ 不人云亦云 ~~
能用自己雙眼清晰地透徹事物背後真相.
你就成熟了 **
希望宣虎經過沉潛(與)反思
更睿智地懂得去取捨.
宣虎他~~不是壞人 ~ 也絕非品性低劣
只是不知女方真面目, 不小心踏進泥沼中.
( 抱怨他擺臭臉的工作人員, 也請心慈體諒他這一年多來
承受的感情壓力與折磨, 不要再落井下石了. )
站起來吧 ! 孩子 ~
用你的重生力量成為更出色, 更偉大演員.
數年之後 ~
當你擁有名聲(與)財富後,
記得去幫助飢餓的/貧窮的/受難中的人.
這是與你不相識的(台灣)小阿姨我 ~~ 對你的真心期許.
我也會持續在台灣關注你的作品喔 .......... 加油 !!!
<p.s.> 宣虎所挑選(與)搭配的衣服顏色.
居然......... 都是我喜歡的.
所有顏色(與)圖案均是我所喜歡的.
這也很湊巧. 對吧 !
( 除了兩人都有深深酒窩以外 )
因為這緣分 ~~
所以我寫下了這些文字給他.
( English version is at the bottom )
Nature Shares Your Pain !
https://twitter.com/JClaudiasofia
Did you ever look down on your lover
( or other person ) ?
Who loves who ?
What Is True Love ?
https://claudiasofia2017818.blogspot.com/2020/04/who-loves-who.html
Breakup ! Heartbreak !
Go to Travelling !
( Run into Love Affair - Tour Guide )
( English version )
Jan.06, 2022 posted after holiday
Some oversea netizens expected to read in English.
Taking holiday time, I briefly offer it :
So many handsome boys & beautiful girls in Asia.
I have never been obsessed with any actors, actresses.
No idol worship, only admire their drama
performances **
I saw a drama recently :
the actor’s smile was so sweet
From his smile, I saw & sensed sincerity/kindness & shy.
I was really very impressive :
So "Coastal Village Cha Cha Cha"
I enjoyed from the 1st episode to the final one ~~
( Because I myself also have two deep dimples on my face :
From elementary school to university, graduate school ~ ~
my dimples have been the deepest on face in the class )
My colleagues in the office all love this drama.
They appreciate all the actors in the drama ~
especially the male protagonist ( actor ).
Sudden !!
In the final episode,
there was a giant nuclear bomb explosion at that night
( Oct.17 ) !!
The office colleagues asked me heart brokenly :
Sister !
What should we do? Why was there such a thing !!
I told them calmly : " I don't believe what that woman described.
Abortion may be true.
But the details are by no means 100% facts.
After you wait a few days, there may be new developments.
I still like that sincere & sweet smile of #KimSeonHo.
That smile is not fake.
It is contained in the heart ~ and shows outwardly.
I don't believe it ~~ he would not be so evil. "
Sister ~
Do you still appreciate the actor Kim Sun Ho's drama ?
Yes !
I answered categorically.
No matter what she ( ex-girlfriend ) or others wrote on the Internet
to criticize #KimSeonHo ?
Yes!
I replied decisively.
You're Unique :
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I don't have intention to comment on that (ex) girlfriend.
I just want to remind
#KimSeonHo and other boys in their twenties / thirties of the world
as follows :
Finding a girlfriend, in addition to the appearance you like,
Character is very important as well.
( this is what matters for the happiness of a lifetime ) *****
Innocent life is simple, kind and connotative.
Excellent cooking skills;
Not vanity;
Work hard ;
bear Hardships and Persistence ;
be filial to parents.
Those personality traits are significant ****
If one is not happy to fall in love feeling stressful every day,
and mood is dull & heavy burden !
If the other party cannot be trusted .
Don't keep going on only because you are already in love.
Don't be reluctant in love.
This is an inappropriate lover ~
Definitely leave "decisively" ( although it is so so difficult...)
No matter how painful it is !
No matter how hard it is to give up !
Leave & Go Far Away ~~~~
Otherwise, your injury will get deeper & worse !
~ Never think or believe you can change anyone ~
Impossible !
You're Unique :
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Usually, in a relationship ~
The person who suffers pain is the one who gives love sincerely
straight from heart. The hurt & the scars are carved in your mind
for a lifetime.
Those vicious ones who attack & hurt the sincere ones :
They mostly were not doing upright.
They didn't know what shame was !
Only greedy, selfish, plenty of excuses & lies.
Never they reflected on their behaviors.
They acted like insane lions to bite others.
Superficial ~
This kind of people will regret only when they are getting old &
losing many things !!
But now they're eloquent & don't admit any mistakes.
They think they're victim; actually they're not.
Time elapsed !
As for the person who was hurt and pierced through bloody already
broke out of the cocoon ~ bounce tens of thousands of feet height
away.
They realized life with wisdom !
Live aloof and at ease now ** )
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When I was in university ; when I was in graduate school,
I have seen some classmates ( boys / girls ) suddenly completely
different ( weird ) because of the emotional hurt of love affairs .
Some gave up themselves.
After graduation, & working in society,
often young colleagues in enterprise come to cry for their emotional
pain. They could not work with concentration ...
After these classmates/colleagues bravely faced the trauma,
Now
they're totally mature and have successful career .
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Buddha / God cut a wound in our hearts :
Prompt us to realize that everything in life cannot be perfect.
Because it's not perfect ~~
We will fix it, and try our best to start again.
Covering the scar on the bleeding chest, turned around
and worked hard.
Our life turns to have depth and thickness.
Our view owns width & height.
#SeonHo now :
The heart is cut like a knife, dripping with blood, torn apart.
The process of struggling is suffering.
Hate the suffering and strive in order to get rid of it all.
But his legs were limp, and his heart was broken.
He doesn't know how to face the public !!
Chaos ~ Blurred ~ Overwhelmed !
Hiding ~ sad and crying.
He hates himself for
causing parents worrying about him !
making all friends who love him so uncomfortable !
Fans were all shocked and disappointed !
Confusion .... tangled in mind ... at a loss !!
Scarred, soul is completely different,
and he can never find himself originally again.
Alone and helpless ! ...floating in the boundless sea.
He can't see fingers ~ sentimental,
the future is unknown...the vastness is endless .
Where will he float ?? ( Which direction ! )
Normally pretending strong & smiling in front of people.
How painful is his bleeding wound ?
Nobody can know it unless you (yourself) have suffered the same pain.
The scars are deep, unforgettable,
but those teach us a lot of comprehension !
#KimSeonHo the first movie ( #Sad Tropical ) ~
It's okay to play a role of a bad guy :
( Fight it as hard as you can ! )
The hurt suffered, the sorrow accumulated in the heart,
depression, grievance, and anger.
It happened to be all vented out
by playing the role of movie " Sad Tropical " ~
( Hit it ~) ( Hit away all hardships ) ( Fight with sweat )
( Beat till exhaustion ) ( Beat to be exhausted )
( Beat it until your face is filled with tears )
( Beat till get down the knees and crying over bitterly ).
You will come alive!
The torture
Will transform #SeonHo ~~
Your future will be more determined and mature.
You will see the insignificance of people (self) even more.
More humble ~~ Know how to be compassionate.
Clearer see ~~ The thorns on the road of life
More open-minded ~~
Very willing to help the suffering people in the world.
When you are no longer blinded or cheated by the complicated
people and things in society.
When you know how to exert your life experience to analyze and
judge.
Don't follow the trend ~~ Don't follow the crowd ~~
Whey you can use your own eyes to clearly see the truth behind things.
You will be very mature **
Hope #KimSeonHo will go through deep and deep reflection & Know how to make choices more wisely.
SeonHo,
he is not a bad person, nor is he worse in character.
It was just that he did not know her ( the ex-girlfriend) true face, so he accidentally stepped into
the mud.
( The staff of Hometowncha-cha-cha who complained Kimseonho,
please be so kind and considerate due to Seonho's bad love affair
stress shadowed on him more than a year long time; do not criticize
him again )
Don't fall into troubles anymore 김선호
owing to the emotional pressure and torture that you have endured so far !
Stand up ! #KimSeonHo ~
Use your rebirth power to become a better and
greater actor.
A few years later ~
When you have fame & wealth,
Remember to help the hungry/poor/suffering
people.
This is an auntie Taiwan who knows you by drama ~~
My sincere expectation on you.
I will continue to follow your drama in Taiwan ... !!!
<p.s.> The colors of clothes that KimSeonHo chose ,
Actually.........I liked them all.
All colors (and) patterns were what I fond of .
This is also a coincidence. Right !
( Besides we both have deep sweet dimples on face )
Because of this fate~~
So I wrote these words to him
firstly in Taiwan language on November 01, 2021
So I wrote these words to him
secondly in English on January 06, 2022
for the overseas netizens' request .
THANK YOU !
Open a Colorful New Life :
Find Something New in Your Life :
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